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Many times always...

Posted by 诗情话义 on 7:28 AM

It has been awhile since my last post, I'm truly sorry for neglecting this blog, on the other hand, heartfelt thanks to all readers, for your patience and on-going support...

Life's getting much more challenging once I steps into the real corporate world, instead of reading people's experiences and studying theories from books, now I get to experience it by my very self.

Pressurized by heavy workloads and deadlines, overtime, supper instead of dinner, becomimg a part of my routine. Though all these events surrounding me each day, I keep on reminding myself that life journey isn't meant to be as smooth as silk, it's only through ups and downs, trials and falls, growth is possible!

And in times of trouble, through prayers, i found calm and relief...

Being single all these while, I realised each of us really need someone special and beloved, to be there for us, to support, to comfort and share, when despair and burdens encamped around us...

Before I put this post to a halt, wish to share a song by one of my favourite singers- Hayley Westenra-many times always, in her album of Hayley Sings Japanese Songs 2. I personally think that its lyric really motivating and thoughtful, together with the music and Hayley's touching voice, indeed made a marvelous job :)



A voice calls softly
It calls from within
To trust my steps
And to keep on dreaming

Around night falls and all turns to grey
But I hold a light to light my way

The sky is clear blue
No matter what we do
The road is long
But I see the light
That shines at the end
The arms reaching in
I know you are waiting for me

Though sorrows, troubles
May gather up high
Broken glass pieces
Fall from the sky
Memories though sad
Will hold something true
Shattered glass pieces
Reflect something new

la, la, la...
oo... noo...
loo..

A voice calls softly
It calls from within
To trust my steps
And to keep on dreaming

Around night falls and all turns to grey
But I hold a light deep in my heart
I knew you were waiting right from the start

la, la, la...
oo... noo...
loo..


Always have faith, give hope and love with genuine heart, may God bless us to live each day with gladness and filled with His blessing. Till we meet again :)


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Posted by 诗情话义 on 9:09 AM
As long as we are alive we will experience sufferings. But that does not mean we have to be unhappy.

Unhappiness comes from allowing ourselves to be controlled by life's ups and downs-from feeling defeated, from losing hope, losing courage, losing the will to advance...

I'd experienced these kind of despair and negative feelings once... But afterall we still have to move on with life...

Happiness is something we must create for ourselves, no one else can give it to us..

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向日癸

Posted by 诗情话义 on 8:17 AM

向往


仰望


有时真的很令人疲惫


或许有些事是不分错对


向日癸虽然那么地美


我却阻止不了它的枯萎


眼角流下的泪


显得你是如此的累


心中的花蕾


是否那么易碎?

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心与新的方向

Posted by 诗情话义 on 11:38 AM
已逝去的

让她随风飘逸


此地此刻

向往着全新全心的方向


从新出发

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Posted by 诗情话义 on 11:02 PM
人总会做错

但是错误是少不得的

它能让人吸取教训、成长

所以错并不可耻

最重要是觉醒、改过

以及警惕自己下次不再犯

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无题

Posted by 诗情话义 on 10:53 PM
太甜的东西,吃多了会腻;

酸的东西吃太多,也会受不了...

人生也一样, 就是有酸有甜,有苦有乐,有悲有喜...

生命也因此而精彩,因此而美丽...

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脆弱 = Fragile ???

Posted by 诗情话义 on 6:00 AM
"-她的生命变得那么的无奈- 为何生命是如此的脆弱。" - (http://redbeankanglife.blogspot.com/2009/08/exhausted.html)

生命是脆弱的,生命真的是脆弱的。也许在你热情奔放,在你闪耀着无限光华的时候,你只知道生命的美丽和灿烂,你只知道生命如春风怡人、鸟语花香。可你知道吗?生命有时脆弱的不堪一击,轻飘飘的就如那凋零的花、飞舞的雪,一触即碎。

生命何其美丽,生命又何其短暂,可生命又何其脆弱啊!当面对脆弱的生命销声匿迹时,伤感、痛楚和无奈一针针地扎在我的心上...

曾经健谈的她因病魔的纠缠,变了,变得忧郁,无奈...

请珍惜生命吧,珍惜这美丽而又脆弱的生命。不管你是卑微的小人物,还是显赫的大人物;不管你是贫贱的拾荒者,还是高贵的达官贵人;不管你是健全的,还是身有残疾的。都请你好好珍惜这美丽而脆弱的生命。

珍惜生命,就是珍惜亲人的温暖和关爱;珍惜生命,就是对亲人最大的感恩和报答...

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毕业典礼 - 青春留笔

Posted by 诗情话义 on 9:58 AM

收拾起曾经亲自创造的记忆,行襄里尽是对往昔的叹息。无奈!我总是太不潇洒,突然间那么的在乎......遥视的目光早已无力,已瑟缩在心底,只能透露出一种焦灼,一种无可奈何。习惯了沉默与单身,只是不习惯夕阳连你们的身影也要拉走,拉远了,消散了最后一个美好的意象。

该走的,留也留不住。有缘的,终究还会相逢。该在残阳下吹箫,吹破长空,吹破寂静,此时,风亦萧萧......只是,再回首时,依然——痛......关上宿舍的门锁上这段回忆~飘荡荡的过了这三年。

无论天是不是很蓝,日子过得是不是很慢,在那个即定的时刻,我们终究还是要毕业了。一下子感受到了悲伤的气氛,共同进退的组员,同窗,情侣,大家都在忙着抱头痛哭,满是动人的故事和未了的情缘...... 我们走了,淡淡的忧伤和苍凉。也许会最后再和共处几年的房间,陪我们度过多少夜晚的床合一张影。

兄弟们坐一圈,暖壶烧一次开水,让我为你们泡那么一壶回忆...... 我们也曾专注的听过课......遇到了比较“和蔼”的老师。教室的前几排通常是空着。还记得那样的课堂吗?当然,更多的时候我们还是在“睡觉”。

喝茶应该算是大学里面最廉价的消遣方式了吧。他送给她的小熊是把它带回家还是继续留在这里见证他们的爱情?孤单的球鞋最后一次用它触球......

毕业照那天,大家坐在一起,都变得和气起来了......以后彼此也会有不同的金钱和地位那时候我们还会像这样亲密无间吗?以后你们是否还常常翻起我们的照片,看看facebook 与friendster被tagged 的回忆录? 总是期待能有下一次坐在一起碰杯的日子......

离别...泪流...莫名其妙的感动......有些东西我们是无论如何也留不住地。它总在我们不经意的时候,从指缝中悄悄滑过,譬如时间,譬如青春,你只能斜靠着墙壁,呆呆地看着它一分一秒地流逝过去。

雨还是在飘,花开花谢,依旧在轮回。那段大学校园的日子却会化作轻轻的风轻轻的梦轻轻的朝朝夕夕,变成了淡淡的泪淡淡的笑淡淡的那年那月。关上宿舍的门,锁上这段回忆,我们真的走了...... 但愿我们能满怀信心期待下一次的相逢。在此向来临的毕业典礼致敬,也借此祝你们前程似锦!


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Amazing Advice

Posted by 诗情话义 on 7:46 PM
1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Talk to God about what is going on in your life. Buy a lock if you have to.

3. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, 'My purpose is to__________ today. I am thankful for______________'

4. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

5. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli , almonds & walnuts.

6. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

7. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

8. Eat breakfast like a king or queen, lunch like a prince or princess and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge
card.

9. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

10. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

11. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

12. You are not so important that you have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

13. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

14. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

15. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

16. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'

17. Forgive everyone for everything.

18. What other people think of you is none of your business.

19. GOD heals everything - but you have to ask and believe .

20. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

21. Your job won't take care of you when you are in need. Your friends will. Stay in touch!!!

22. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

23. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: I am thankful for__________. Today I accomplished _________.

24. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

25. When you are feeling down, start listing your many blessings. You'll be smiling before you know it.

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风起的季节

Posted by 诗情话义 on 1:36 AM

风中的蒲公英花絮,

看来好像下雪一样,

下着惨淡的白而掉落地上的,

竟是串成了一片花海,

展现它们最后美丽的容颜。。




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错过是一种永恒的美丽

Posted by 诗情话义 on 9:20 AM

失去的已经失去,

就让我们带着美好的回忆继续上路,

不要再频频回首,留恋水中的月亮。

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人不要错过......

Posted by 诗情话义 on 7:33 AM

有的人你看了一辈子,却忽视了一辈子;

有的人你看了一眼,却影响你一生;

有的人热情的为你快乐,却被你悄悄冷落;

有的人让你拥有短暂的开心,却得到你思绪的连锁;

有的人一厢情愿了好多年,却被你拒绝了好多年;

有的人无心的一个表情,却成了你永恒的思念。

我们每天都会错过一些东西,

错过时没发现而事后却追悔莫及。

智者说:人最好不要错过两种东西:

最后一班回家的车和一个深爱你的人!

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Posted by 诗情话义 on 6:12 AM in

Dad, I know that i don't get to talk to you often enough but here is few words from me on this special occasion...

I'm sorry for all the trouble I have brought to you and this family...

On the other hand, thanks for all you have done for me, I wouldn't be where I am today without you..

Happy Father's Day!

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收不回的心

Posted by 诗情话义 on 1:13 AM

有一种爱,明明是深爱,却说不出来

有一种爱,明明想放弃,却无法放弃

有一种爱,明知是煎熬,却又躱不开

有一种爱,明知无前路,心却早已收不回来

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诀别的叹息

Posted by 诗情话义 on 11:15 AM

决定放弃你的那一刻我哭了

我的眼泪证明了我是真的很爱你

爱你不是游戏

爱你是真心的

忘记你我做不到

不管我们的结局是否完美


什么是勇气?

是哭着要你爱我,还是哭着让你离开?

为什么我们总是不懂得珍惜眼前人?


在未可预知的重逢里

我们以为总会重逢

总会有缘再会

总以为有机会说一声对不起

却从没想过每一次挥手道别,都可能是诀别

每一声叹息都可能是人间最后的一声叹息。。


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如果

Posted by 诗情话义 on 7:56 PM

如果真诚是一种伤害,我选择谎言

如果谎言是一种伤害,我选则沉默

如果沉默是一种伤害,我选择离开


如果失去是苦 你怕不怕付出?

如果迷乱是苦 你会不会选择结束?

如果追求是苦 你会不会选择执迷不悟?

如果分离是苦 你要向谁倾诉?

如果的如果。。

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失眠

Posted by 诗情话义 on 12:25 PM

2009年6月10日

凌晨3时30分

一个无法入睡的夜

。。终于想通了。。

不再犹豫,不再彷徨

迈向全心全新的方向

我要把梦想给找回来

做回那最真实的自己

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解悟

Posted by 诗情话义 on 1:00 AM

因为微笑,我才了解了爱
  
因为爱,所以选择离开

我喜欢这句话。。。


有些感情如此直接和残酷,容不下任何迂回曲折的温暖

带着温暖的心情离开,要比苍白的真相要好,纯粹的东西死的太快了
 
感情被懂得是一种幸福,等待着被懂得是一种孤独。。。

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放一颗真心在爱人身上

Posted by 诗情话义 on 11:58 PM

风渐渐的吹,一天一天,一年一年。傻傻的稻草人,就这样苦苦守侯着,就这样痴痴的爱着。为什么要苦苦支撑着,守候一生等来的会是什么呢?稻草人的宿命:等待着,一直守护着不属于自己的爱情。

稻草人以前的生活虽然简单,但是快乐,无忧无虑,与世无争,没有思想,也没有爱情,只有麦田一直陪伴他左右。

直到有一天,稻草人开始幻想,开始想寻找属于自己的爱情。当他遇到鸟的时候,他知道那就是一直要找的爱人。鸟儿爱上了安静的稻草人,稻草人爱上了自由的鸟儿,就这样他们过着快乐的一段时光。

但是,没有谁可以留的住鸟儿,她是自由的,她不可能像稻草人一样一辈子都留在一块土地上,慢慢的鸟儿开始想往别的地方去了。稻草人知道鸟儿要的幸福自己给不了,与其束缚着她,还不如放手让她去寻找自己的幸福,爱她,所以放手。

鸟儿走了,稻草人问她还会不会回来,鸟儿没有回答,只是远远的飞走了。稻草人试图追赶鸟儿,可惜,鸟儿终究走了,遗留片片羽毛。稻草人握着羽毛站在麦田,遥望。

时光在慢慢的流逝,周围的一直都是那样安静。稻草人已经习惯了,寂寞,孤独,无助。没有人去在意他,没有谁知道他的感受。一阵风吹过,稻草人晃动着转过了一个方向。曾有那么一刹那,稻草人以为他便会是自己的宿命。

一天又一天,一年又一年。慢慢的稻草人开始领悟另一种幸福。守望,看着自己爱的人能幸福,也就足够了。有一个我深爱着的人,虽然我不能和她在一起,不过,我仍然深爱着她。守望着,直到稻草人的心干枯了。

一阵风吹来,稻草人的身体散了,一根根的稻草随着风儿慢慢的散尽了。也许有一天你会发现,世界上最有心的就是稻草人。之所以他没有了心,是因为,他将自己的心放在了所爱的人身上。。。

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发现。期待。爱

Posted by 诗情话义 on 12:35 PM
每个人都有情窦初开



每个人都会对爱有所期待


为爱而守候的日子

一生无悔

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独处

Posted by 诗情话义 on 3:30 PM
心中一口井

困住无法挣脱的自我


窗外一片天

秋冬春夏掠过人间繁华浮梦

心中井上的天, 是你僅有的世界

空中映出的井,是世界微尘般的点

看不见的线看不见的距离


一个空白的下午

和自己..有约


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诗意

Posted by 诗情话义 on 11:00 PM

这像极了一首词...


枯藤老树昏鸦,

小桥流水人家,

古道西风瘦马,

夕阳西下,

断肠人在天涯。


可惜,虽在天涯,但我不是断肠人。

却习惯在傍晚的时候,也是如此思念一个人。


思念谁?或许,只是爱上了思念的感觉。

静静的,静静的,任心里,盈满她的气息

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把春天送给你

Posted by 诗情话义 on 11:02 AM
送你一缕春风,让绿色铺展你空旷的心灵

送你一束春花,让馨香温存你离愁别恨的梦


送你一片云彩,让灿烂的微笑温馨你前行的旅程

送你一颗萌芽的种子,让融融的土地长出你的希望

我把春天送给你,让你的岁月似春天般的温暖


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一个人的海滩

Posted by 诗情话义 on 2:38 AM
某个夏日的午后

你曾说要和我一起去海边堆砌城堡

我在沙滩上默默地等待着...


日落了

人歇了

整个世界的灯都亮起来了

却还不见你的到来...


直到潮水将城变成沙海

我才明白

人生就是一场寂寞而漫长的等待...


因为

你的爱

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远方

Posted by 诗情话义 on 9:51 AM

我总是喜欢在这细雨的天气里

站在窗口

向一个不知名的地方眺望


你会在这时也想起我吗?

想起我的短头发

笑起来时变得小小的眼睛


我总是想起你

故作严肃的表情孩子一样的笑容

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晒月光

Posted by 诗情话义 on 2:04 AM

一幢旧楼的顶层

一间整洁的小屋

一个堆满杂物的天台

一面水泥修补过的灰墙


夏天来的时候

我亲手在这里栽满植物

它们或许没有花朵

却在每一个共守的夜晚

飘出绿色的清香


相爱却不能守护在你身旁

相爱却害怕给你更多的伤害

孤单的我站在

你离开的地方


世界都睡去

你的思念越发清凉

如点滴萤火缠绕

在这城市的角落里和我一起

晒月光

雨天

Posted by 诗情话义 on 2:55 AM
雨天

躲在女孩家的楼下

遥望着陌生而熟悉的窗口

企盼她身影出现


等待着

等待着

等待着


等待中雨水流淌

成泪...


多年后

若再逢着雨天

仍会想起

曾经

为爱而守候的日子

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心动

Posted by 诗情话义 on 12:10 AM

生活中, 偶尔会遇见让你心动的那个人


也许世界上真的存在命注定的那个人...


第一次见面时的心动,


霎时,周围的一切仿佛失去了存在的价值


眼中, 心里只有唯一的妳


也许,也许让我遇见了命中注定的那个...



我爱的女孩...

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